since i know you're all dying to know
End result of talk with hypothetical daughter about hypothetical situation:
Computer use limited to homework, under my watchful eye, for at least a week.
Grounded until further notice.
She has to write a letter to the family member (my grandfather) she disrespected.
And other sundry slave-labor type stuff.
I do believe she's really sorry.
Oh, she deleted that blog entry.